What happens in your boudoir is your business, but if you’re noticing that lately things have been more, how should we say it, milder than what you want, then it’s time to spice up your love life. Now we may not be “love experts,” but we know a thing or two about how a vacation can boast your mojo. Whether you are looking for something more intimate or an entirely new experience, we’ve got you covered with the top 10 places to spice up your love life.
Nayara Hotel Spa and Gardens, Costa Rica
For true romantic bliss there is no better place than Nayara Hotel Spa and Gardens. Located on a secluded hill encircled by emerald forests, tropical gardens and overlooking the Arenal Volcano, you and your loved one will experience total seclusion. Spend your time together in one of the many hot springs to reenergize, share a meal at one of the six dining options then enjoy each other’s company on your private balcony that includes an outdoor shower and hot tub. This resort is bursting at the seams with romance and, once you return, your love life will thank you.
Museum of Sex, New York, New York, United States
Eager to learn something new? The Museum of Sex is here to inform. Its mission is to preserve and present the history, evolution and cultural significance of human sexuality and it’s committed to encouraging public enlightenment and engagement. From the sex life of animals to the evolution of pornography to FUNLAND: Pleasures and Perils of the Erotic Fairground (a hands-on exhibit designed to stimulate all five senses in both subtle and not-so-subtle ways), you and your S.O. may find yourselves leaving this museum and a little curious…
Atame Restaurant, Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Whether or not you believe in the power of aphrodisiacs, there is no denying the romance and seduction power that Atame will have on a couple. The blend of the mansion-like décor, performances, music and food combine to give lasting effect. Settle in for an evening featuring ingredients used to spice up not only your food, but your love life, including maca, damiana, ginkgo biloba, muira puama, tribulus terrestris and epimedium, all of which are considered aphrodisiacs and all of which are included in the recipe for love.
Hidden Beach Resort, Riviera Maya, Mexico
It’s not hard to conclude that social nudity can be a sensual experience (for some people), but nude resorts, like the Hidden Beach Resort, want to provide more than just that. The concept for most nude resorts is to provide a safe place for total freedom and a chance to rid yourself of insecurities and be who you’re really meant to be. Enjoy life with nothing to hide as you share all the amenities the resort has to offer. A few days of seeing your lover in this more complete way is sure to re-energize your love life.
(Please note that sexual behavior must be reserved for your private suite and that inappropriate behavior or gestures are not within the etiquette of clothes-free resorts.)
Afternoon tea, London, England
What could be more romantic than tea for two? How about tea for two with a view. BB Bakery offers an afternoon tea boat tour that is the perfect setting for a love story. Let us paint the romantic picture for you: Imagine sipping tea while floating down the Thames in a vintage, private motor yacht with a uniformed captain and taking in some of London’s best culture, landmarks and history while feeding each other finger sandwiches, cakes, scones and pastries…Oh la la… if this isn’t romantic, we don’t know what else is.
Sexpo, Perth, Australia
This year Sexpo will be held in Perth from June 4 to 7. Sexpo is known as a sexuality and adult lifestyle exhibition and is the world’s largest adult show designed to provide a fun and vibrant atmosphere for open-minded adults. What can you expect? Entertainment that ranges from international performers and hypnotists to comedians, strip competitions and more; shopping, but not for things you can typically find at a mall (hint, hint); and lots of socializing and fun at the lounges and bars. After a night (or two), Sexpo will be sure to add some spice in your life.
Singles cruises
Looking for someone special or maybe just looking for some special times? Consider a singles cruise. Pick a cruise based on age-range, holiday, season or destination and you’ll be on your way to meeting new people and places. Singles Cruise is a cruise travel agency that organizes vacation experiences tailored for singles on multiple cruise lines. Sign up and you will have access to exclusive onboard programs such as cocktail mixers, lectures, theme parties, poolside get-togethers, games and a separate dining area as well as the option to participate in singles shore excursions and pre- and post- cruise meet and greets.
Shakti Gardens, Johannesburg, South Africa
It’s no surprise that a major mood killer can be stress. Stress brings in all kinds of negative energy that can really affect one’s love life. And while a lot of vacations can relieve stress and increase happiness, you can find an extra boost of renewed energy at Shakti Gardens. Here, you can opt for a couple’s massage, a sensual healing massage, a sexual energy massage and more. At Shakti Gardens you’ll have no problem rekindling the romance and intimacy in your relationship (and you’ll leave with tips on how to keep the fire of your romance alive for years to come).
Abel Tasman Skydive, Motueka, New Zealand
Why don’t you literally “fall” in love again by going skydiving together. The heart-pounding feeling rushing through your body will spice up more than just your love life. Action-packed experiences, like skydiving, are a great way to add excitement and wonderful memories to a relationship. If you can leap out of a plane together, you can do anything together. But it’s not just each other that you’ll fall in love with, Abel Tasman Skydive provides some of the best views in New Zealand. Witness Mount Taranaki, three national parks, Nelson Lakes and Abel Tasman from a birds-eye view.
Naughty in N’awlins, New Orleans, Louisiana, United States
For five days (July 29 – August 2), New Orleans is even spicier than usual. For a decidedly adult getaway, head to the Big Easy to join a lifestyle and swinger couples convention that has been closing down Bourbon Street for more than 10 years. Start the celebration at the kickoff parade (the world’s only swinger parade), then have fun at the four themed events; a pajama parade, a sailor and sinners party, a glitz and glamour night, and a Mardi Gras masquerade ball. From body painting and good music to food, drinks and great company, Naughty in N’awlins will definitely add some spice to your life.
Main image: Brain Richardson, sunset kiss via Flickr CC BY 2.0
